Hello @sixguns
Discourse => https://www.cloudron.io/store/org.discourse.cloudronapp.html
WordPress => https://www.cloudron.io/store/org.wordpress.cloudronapp.html
aVideo is not available yet but there are alternatives like peer tube => https://www.cloudron.io/store/org.joinpeertube.cloudronapp.html
I would suggest you just try Cloudron Demo - credentials username cloudron and password cloudron.
https://my.demo.cloudron.io/
@sixguns said in seeking server set up advice:
Doesn't seem cloudron can do all that alone
Cloudron does all that.
Manage Domain, Backups, Users, Apps and so on.
Start with the Demo, if you like what you see, start with e.g a Hetzner VPS and start small, start growing, scale up.